To Hubby

We met when we were 16 and became friends. I didn't entertain your expressions of love for me, as I valued our friendship. In today's world, they call it the "friend zone" status. We left it that way and became busy after we graduated. I had a few relationships, as you did. 

After 10 years, your feelings never changed despite different relationships. You expressed your love for a second time, and this time, I reciprocated. 

After four years, we got married and never had a child. We experienced a painful miscarriage but remained strong together. 

Now, in our 50s, we have both changed. I know in my heart that one day you might tell me you're leaving for another girl. I've prepared for that moment, more than I would have expected. It was a joy having you in my life. You are the love of my life, and I have no regrets about accepting your proposal of marriage. My wish for you is to be healthy, strong, and happy on your next journey with that new girl.

Happy Valentine's day, my dear husband

Real talk About Being a Content Creator in Facebook and Youtube

I resigned in August 2024, hoping to pursue a work-from-home job and earn a living. Initially, I watched various YouTube tutorials to gain insights into potential ventures. I ventured into being a content creator for YouTube and Facebook. Since I'm uncomfortable appearing on camera, I decided to focus on no-face content, filming my hands as I colored pages and uploading the videos. I struggled to gain subscribers, likely because my niche didn't appeal to a wide audience.

Inspired by videos suggesting you can earn money by coloring and the adage "do what you love and money will follow," I persevered. However, I eventually realized that many self-proclaimed gurus or coaches earn their income primarily from the views on their content, rather than from the niche itself.

After four months of diligent observation, I concluded that none of these so-called experts genuinely disclosed how they attained the significant earnings they claimed.

This is a valuable lesson for me. I am just happy that I tried and I really enjoy coloring. 

Check my youtube channel as my proof that I really did it and failed:

https://www.youtube.com/@ArtIshka919/shorts

Top 5 Red Flag Traits of a Cheater

Identifying red flag traits of a cheater can be crucial in understanding and addressing issues in a relationship. Here are five (5)  common traits to watch out for:

1. Secrecy and Intentionally Vague: A cheater often becomes secretive about their whereabouts or activities. They may guard their phone or computer, frequently change passwords, or become defensive when asked about their day. This evasiveness is a significant red flag, as it indicates they might be hiding something.

2. Compulsive Liar: Dishonesty is a cornerstone of cheating. If someone frequently lies about small or large matters, it can indicate a tendency to hide the truth. Consistent lying erodes trust and can be a precursor to more significant deceit, such as infidelity.

3. Sudden Change in Habits or Appearance: If a partner suddenly starts paying more attention to their appearance, changes grooming habits, or develops new interests that they don't share with you, it could be a sign that they are trying to impress someone else. These changes can indicate a desire to attract external attention.

4. Emotional Unavailable: A cheater may become emotionally unavailable, showing less interest in the relationship and neglecting emotional or physical intimacy. This withdrawal often occurs because their emotional energy is directed elsewhere.

5. Increased Defensiveness or Hostility: When confronted about their behavior, a cheater might become unusually defensive or hostile. This reaction often stems from guilt or fear of being discovered and can be a way to deflect suspicion.

These traits alone do not confirm cheating, but they can be indicators that warrant a closer look at the relationship dynamics. Open communication is essential to address these concerns, otherwise, take it as a sign that it is better to leave a toxic relationship now rather stay and be miserable.